About Me
Learn a bit more about Dr. Victoria and her background.
Dr. Victoria Lee, Ph.D
I've been a clinical psychologist and sex therapist for more than 25 years. I'm privileged to have a gift and passion for this work. I know that because so many couples have been kind enough to tell me that our work together was life-changing for their marriages.
After many years of helping all kinds of couples, I treasure that fact that I know the the problems most people face. My track record shows that--in all humility--I also know the solutions.
I provide coaching and consultation to people anywhere in the world via Zoom, Skype, Facetime, email, and telephone. Inquires from other countries are welcome.
Due to the pandemic, all my services are currently online.
Education
Universities
Degrees
Georgetown University
George Washington University
Western Graduate School
SouthEast Institute
Doctorate (Ph.d.) in Psychology
Master's (MA) in Psychology and Social Change
Master's (MA) in Cross-cultural Analysis
Bachelor's (BA) in Philosophy and Psychology.
Experience
San Jose State University (SJSU)
John F. Kennedy University (JFKU)
Northern Virginia Community College (NVCC)
College of Notre Dame (CND)
At College of Notre Dame, I was the Director of the Master's Program in Psychology. This included teaching a wide variety of clinical courses and training and supervising therapists.
Methods
My goal as your therapist is to listen attentively and deeply so that you feel heard, valued and supported. Famous psychologist Carl Rogers urged therapists to provide "unconditional positive regard" for their clients. This is another way to describe the goal I have when you give me the privilege of being your therapist. It is the caring relationship between therapist and client that leads to the greatest healing for the client. I have taught and practiced a wide variety of therapeutic approaches including Jungian, Gestalt, cognitive behavioral therapy, existential therapy and life coach skills. A seasoned therapist like myself uses a customized blend of these approaches to assist you in achieving your goals. If a couple wants to communicate more effectively and make some changes in their sexual relationship, we will focus on strategy and skills. If you want to resolve lifelong pain or limitations that are keeping you from fully experiencing love for yourself and your partner, we will explore your early life, early decisions you made, and new decisions that are available to you now.
I have been privileged to serve all kinds of people--many races, religious backgrounds, and life stages. I can assist you with parenting, blended family issues, grief, and much more.
I work only with those I believe I can help. Before any appointments are made, I offer a free 30 minute call to help each of us decide whether it's a good match.
It takes courage to reach out for help on sexual or relationship issues. We are all so very vulnerable when it comes to sex! I am supportive and non-judgemental. I make sure to stay neutral when I work with couples; I have learned that if either feels I'm taking sides, our results will suffer. I want you take home something valuable each time we meet.