Psychotherapy for thoughtful people navigating love, loss, and life transitions

About Dr. Lee, and what she can offer you:

"I’ve been a psychologist, individual and couples therapist, and sex therapist for more than 25 years. I'm privileged to have a gift and passion for this work. After many years of helping all kinds of people, I treasure that fact that I know the problems most people face. My track record shows that I’m skillful at helping you find your personal solutions. So many patients have been kind enough to tell me that our work together was life-changing."

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A joyful, passionate life is your birthright. I can teach you the tools that work. I hope you will join the hundreds of people I have been privileged to help. Reaching out for help takes courage. I will meet you with warmth and support. I provide psychotherapy and coaching to people in California and in many foreign countries via Zoom, Facetime, email, and telephone.Inquires from other countries are welcome.

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Read the latest from Dr. Victoria's blog:

Rumi's Wisdom

Once I started reading Rumi and writing about him everyday, I was “burnt and then I as cooked,” as he once said. His words, his tenderness, and his teachings pierced my soul to its depths. I felt his truths in my core: We are here on this planet for our own and others’ soul-growth. Forgiveness, compassion, and love for all of the human family must be our goal; identifying and committing to the contribution we’re here to make is our greatest privilege. “Love is the religion, a

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My Work is Loving the World!

My work is loving the world! My work is being astonished at the beauty of the natural world, and the human world--its pockets of misery not withstanding. My work is fostering empathy between couples--helping them to open their eyes to the luminous child in themselves and each other. Far from least, my work is speaking loudly in favor of the re-invention of sexuality. In this new sexuality, everyone is included--the young, the old, the disabled, gay, bi, non-binary, transgende

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Let Me Have One More Day

Let me have just one more day, let me have this day and let it not be my last. Let me have just one more day to feel the sap in the...

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What Sex Solutions Can Do For You

Welcome to the first SEX SOLUTIONS blog post. I'm Dr. Victoria Lee, psychologist and sex therapist. I want us all to re-invent sex for the 21st century. I want to help you replace performance anxiety with self-acceptance and with creating a no-fail zone in your bedroom. If your heart longs for an intimate life that is more joyful and satisfying than ever before, this site is meant for you. With over 25 years experience assisting couples of all kinds, I know for sure that good

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